Question by : What should I do in this situation?
So there’s a guy friend of mine who kinda confuses me a times. I’m gay and he’s straight (I’m sure you’ve read these a million times) and I’m confused about some things he’ll tell me and what he does. So recently he had an idea to start a jazz group with me, him, another friend of ours and eventually one more person.
Anyway, this past weekend we had our first rehearsal. So through out rehearsal we trade glances at each other, smiles and what not. Then he sits down at chair beside me (his body facing me) with his guitar. And I glance down at his u know what a few times and I know he started to notice. Cause I looked back at his face and he was giving me a slight grin. And then he kept complementing me on everything I did. Lol. And when the other guy left he was like, “next time I think me and you should be alone and write some more stuff.” And then when he took me home he started telling me stuff that only his guy best friend knows about. One thing was about how one of his friends saw his “business” and I was like “That’s really hot.” To kinda gauge his reaction and he half laughed, “Yeah… right.” He hasn’t told anybody else anybody else about that. So I was just thinking, why is he telling ME this? You know?
I see now that he really trusts me. He really tells me everything on his mind. I don’t really want to read into this too much. I like him and have thought about fooling around with him but I don’t know how to go about actually doing anything. He’s a very sexual person so I’m sure he’d be open to doing something. He’s also said to me, “Dude I’d do anybody but Miley Cyrus. (pause) Anybody.” But of course there’s always a chance he won’t be so open. He often sends off signs that confuse me. Like he bumps into me a lot when we sing in choir, and I’ll catch him staring at me a lot, he always moves to sit beside me in class or any where, he puts his arm around me, hits me in the booty and just stuff like that. Lol. He also knows I’m gay. Any who… what do you all think I should do? Thanks for reading!
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Answer by Yehoshua
are you 100% sure he is strait?
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He definitely sounds interested, but very casually so, so you might get to do him if you make it a low-key thing, an extension of your playing together. He even sounds like you might be able to actually talk to him about it – next time he says ‘I’d do anybody…’ say, ‘I’d love to go you, but I don’t want to lose this relaxed thing we have. Do you think you can do it without it messing things up?’
And only say that if you think YOU can do it without messing things up. You might have a good FWB.
I think you should just go for it. Kiss him or whatever!